CFF-12A

Home for the Weekend (Was Bleibt) 2012

  • Country Germany
  • Production Year 2012
  • Language German with English subtitles
  • Duration 93 minutes

“Happy families are all alike; every unhappy family is unhappy in its own way”. Whether or not director Hans-Christian Schmid had the opening line of Tolstoy’s Anna Karenina in mind when making HOME FOR THE WEEKEND, it forms the basic premise of the film’s plot. When Marko and his little son return to his parent’s modernist, clean bungalow for a weekend away from the capital, he is soon confronted by the complicated unhappiness that each of his parents and his brother are carrying underneath their jolly demeanour. His mother Gitte has been bipolar since his early childhood and announces that she just stopped the numbing medical treatment in order to ‘feel again’. But no one is pleased for her – everyone has become used to her ghost-like presence and in fact started hatching their own secret plans to escape their unhappiness. This is Hans-Christian Schmid’s (REQUIEM, STORM) most subtle, quiet drama taking a look at the internal and universally valid struggles of modern family life.

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The Agent Apsley wrote

Home for the Weekend (2012) (originally Was Bleibt) is not, for me, a film that bears comparison with Woody Allen’s Interiors, shot just before Manhattan. In the introduction, we were told that films do not often show the lives of the German upper middle-classes, and, although this film may do so, it does not, largely, do so in a novel way, as if what it shows were, in itself, enough.

Allen’s film, too, has a mother with a history of mental ill-health and siblings gathering at the family home, one of whom is more put upon by being local, but the highly-strung mother in his family has not simply stopped taking medication as Gitte has - which just seems forced in reinforcing the pat belief that the only problems are when people are not compliant. What, more importantly, is very unsympathetic is the language, typified by talking about Gitte going nuts, whereas my fantasy about Germany is that there is far more acceptance, not least within this class, of mental-health issues and how to support those with them than in Britain.

In this film, for all that the characters just react badly to the news that Gitte stopped her medication, none of them seems either to appreciate her not wanting to be drugged so that she has no feeling, or that their concern at what she has done lacks any obvious meaning if they then go on to reveal that they have just been humouring her. She already feels that they have been pretending, and that she has no important say in anything, but it makes little sense to confirm it at this time.

We see the brothers angry and physical with each other over who is to blame for their mother, but they ultimately move on quite quickly to fulfil themselves away from home, which, sadly, seems to send the message that Gitte had been holding them back, and she is remembered largely as a source of recrimination between father and son. Allen's three sisters seem a little less slow to forget...

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